Relationships – whether they are romantic or not – are complicated. Two unique and different individuals come together and connect. It is also how two (or more) people interact with each other.


Have you ever heard of the saying: ‘You cannot change what is happening, but you can change how you respond to what is happening’?


That is the approach I use in my relationship coaching sessions. In these sessions, I help you to see how you contribute to what is happening in your relationship.


In my relationship coaching sessions, you will learn:

  • How to show yourself the love that you crave and demand from others.

  • How to be whole and content through loving yourself – allowing you to give so much more to others.

  • To identify and challenge conditioned thoughts and beliefs that are affecting how you interact with others.

  • To analyse and challenge the unhealthy patterns that you create and use in your relationships.

  • To heal your past hurts to open you up to receiving love.

  • How to increase your self-image and self-worth.

  • To cultivate self-love and nurture it to become unconditional and all-encompassing.


Through taking accountability and learning and practicing self-love, you will become less dependent on others to fill those needs. This will leave you free to enjoy each interaction for what it is – instead of what it can give you.


You will benefit from my relationship coaching if:

  • You have been hurt in relationships – romantic or platonic.

  • You are currently experiencing problems in your relationship and feel as if you have ‘hit a wall’.

  • You are experiencing repetitive fights over the same things over and over again.

  • You behave in destructive ways that hurt not only your relationship but also yourself.

  • You find it difficult to open up to love and to trust again after being hurt and betrayed in the past.

Lara Klopper

Transformation Life Coaching (Pty) Ltd

Registration number 2018/336012/07


1013 Clifton Avenue

Lyttelton Manor



South Africa

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